SEX EDUCATION

Hello reader, what’s the first thought that crossed your mind upon setting your eyes on the title? To the Christian /Muslim born and raised counterparts, the three-letter word is a source of sin, haram. To the none religious raised, it’s an interesting mind-blowing word, a big deal to them. What about you our esteem writer, Mrs. know-it-all? Well, are you ready for the ride? take a seat, fix your eyes on the content, open your mind and be attentive because its gonna be a short and sweet journey. 

The African society to be specific has been and still is naive when it comes to this topic. Why should we be afraid of nature? Yeah, I just did call it nature, you read it right. Just like a normal human can't live without food, water, urinating, or even taking a shit, he/she can’t resist the urge for sex. Not a single person here has never had an urge to have a taste or the opposite gender or rather the reproductive organ of another individual. The Africanism ignorance in us won't let us embrace this God-created gift and instead leads us into believing its more lethal than a Russian military. 

African parents over years have failed in this important rite of passage in their children's lives. I know religion is against sex, but we all know in our youthful stage we most likely get a taste of the forbidden fruit. The number of young single mothers is growing every single day and it's all comes down to a lack of proper sex education. Only if they were taught when to withdraw or use protection or master their safe days, these incidents wouldn't have happened. 

It has already been proven over and over that most of the youths can't have the patience to wait for the 'until marriage' for them to explore their imaginations. The thought of them dying virgins doesn't sit well with them. Since we can't abstain why not do the act in the right way, the safe way? 

Due the to lack of this essential life lesson, we somehow end up having boring sex lives. A lady shying away from asking to have intercourse with her partner or both partners not being open to how they'll enjoy the act. No one ever said that a lady can't request for pleasure.

Its high time our generation stops making a big deal out of the three-letter word. when done the right way it’s absolutely amazing. It’s an artistic gift to us why not enjoy it. And while at it let’s do it responsibly, an art retains its value when the people who have access to it are limited. That statement is not about arts heh.if you donn gerrit forgerrr…….

And to all the ladies out there ,you are beautiful just the way you are. The ‘aaaaaawwwws’ and ‘wowwwws’ have it,happy belated women’s day